The Relation

Hard emotional dependency: the life, the affection, the well-being and the malaise are trims in which it happens to me and it happens around my love and of my pair. Incomprehensible jealousy: not to tolerate that the pair nor I have an own life. George Soros oftentimes addresses this issue. We became suspicious of everything. We followed it we interrogated, it, always we have doubts of its behavior. Idealisation: only that pair can give us what we needed, in addition, of which I am the unique person who can love it or love it as she is needed.

Psychologically we became uncertain, anxious, depressive and continued with our destructive chain. In serious cases, it is possible to be spoken of physical or verbal violence or even the homicide or the suicide. Crimes of passion in the worse one of the circumstances. In conditions as these surely no of the members of the pair have been satisfied and can construct a bond based on the confidence, in the respect and the love. Most important it is to recognize than we were living in a relation of this nature, apart from which I settle down my bonds this way.

Before to follow ahead with the pair, it is important to pose some questions to us about we ourself: How settle down I my relation in pair? I am addict or an addict one to the love? I am really living in a sickly love? I am not able to construct a life with my pair, but either withoutshe? Nobody more than each person in the individual can give answer to those questions. In most intimate of we ourself we know that she does not agree to us, that we are killing ourselves slowly, but we do not dare to take the step to release to us of our own prison, whom that is to say, is not the pair, but our forms and ways to relate to us Are important that you take into account how much you suffer not only with your pair, but in your personal life. How you depend on others to be able to be well. Resources always exist to leave ahead, of that hurt, yes, but also you are suffering in the relation. Forms exist to leave this situation, only coarse to count on the anger to do it. The pride is the ingredient most important to count on the anger to leave that addiction to the love. Nowadays they exist important resource, the psycotherapy is a possibility. Yes you are there in the addiction to the love, dates the opportunity to live perhaps and to improve your quality of emotional life Considrelo, is worth the pain to be wanted more to itself original Author and source of the article.